I did have a laugh the other day when I was talking to my husband about this blog. I’ve blogged so much about my child’s struggles with ADHD. You only need to cruise around my blog posts to see there may be some adult ADHD happening. I think I know exactly who he got it from. About one year ago, a sweet lady nominated me for a ‘Verstile Blog’ award. Really I just think, ‘Adult ADHD blog’ award. I don’t think I could focus on one topic even if I tried. My friend suggested I go into special education consultancy work. She said I should create a blog specifically for special ed. That’s just so funny. There’s no way I could stay focussed on the one topic. That’s how scattered and busy my brain is. Before I’ve finished thinking about one thing, I’m already considering something different. Versatile indeed! We will go with that for now. Now onto my post, something entirely different to what I was just writing about. Stay with me.
I wanted to write about something very important to me, grace. You can receive grace, greet people with grace, be saved by grace, be strengthened by grace, filled with grace, share grace, parent with grace, be gracious. The list goes on. But it suddenly dawned on me, what actually is grace? We hear this term used often. Christian or not, it’s used often. It is used over 150 times in the New Testament of the Bible alone. Some people call the Gospel in the Bible, the Gospel of Grace. We assume we know what it is, using the term, but do you actually know what it means?
I’ve enjoyed exploring the Bible, articles, podcasts etc in trying to find out what grace means. My favourite example of grace was in a podcast sermon about grace. Imagine you were speeding and a policeman pulled you over. Grace would be to not only let you off with warning (that would be mercy), but for the officer to then give you money to fix your broken headlights. In light of this example, the meaning of grace is a free, unmerited gift. The grace of God is the free gift of salvation to the undeserving because of our sin. You can then understand how the Gospel can be called the Gospel of Grace. It’s the story of God’s free gift to everyone. It has nothing to do with people’s good works, it is free undeserved goodness. Now that I’ve got this understanding of grace under my belt, I’ve now got to work out how to parent with grace. Oh my, watch this space. That’s if I can stay focussed on this topic long enough.